Why the 20th century was wrong  (c) 2010

Peter Ferentzy  PhD  Crackhead Support independent publishing: Buy this book on  Lulu. Also available at Barnes & Noble and  Amazon                      




Why I wrote this book


1. “You need to hit bottom”a myth that kills

2. Abstinence is the only realistic solutionbiggest lie in the business

3. Treatment produces abstinencethe second biggest lie

4. “All I have to share is my own experience”your experience might not mean what you think it does

5. Codependencya stupid word that doesn’t mean anything

6. “Don’t enable the addict”why not? It’s really the only solution 

7. How this nonsense all starteda bit of history that everyone should know

8. The meaning of addictionthere’s more to it than dependence

9. Recovery from addictiontime to get serious about what that means

10. Odds and endsthings that we can do without

11. Postscript

12. Further reading



Why I wrote this book


My name is Peter. I work in the addiction field, and I’m also a recovering crack addict. Yeah, alcoholic too, but it was crack that took me down. For real: I liked being an alcoholic, but a crack addiction on top of that made things hard to juggle. A few drinks would lead to a three-day run. On this point I’m not alone: crack really screwed up my alcoholism. A shame really, but there’s no going back.

   Unlike most recovering druggies in the addiction business, I don’t work in treatment or any kind of counseling. I’m a research scientist, a Ph.D. Just go to my website and you’ll see much of what I’ve been up to ( Unlike most of the recovering people on the frontlines, addicts in the drug scene, or those in the 12 Step world, I actually understand what’s going on. That’s not a joke, and it’s not a boastjust the truth.

   Throughout this book, I attempt to convey just that. I do my best to keep it free of specialized jargon or intricate logical points. But I’m not here to talk down to my readers: titles of scientific and other books and articles are offered to anyone wanting to pursue these matters further. This is not the type of manuscript where points made are accompanied by references, and then backed by numerous points and counterpoints. That kind of scholarly detail and precision would entail that each chapter be almost a book on its own. I want to keep this book brief and accessibleand I strongly urge my readers to make use of the sources provided at the end. Knowledge is power. So read, learn, educate yourself!

   Why did I write this book? I’m sick of seeing people suffer needlessly, and die needlessly. The assumptions upon which the North American approach to addiction has been based since the early 20th century are mistaken, nasty, and stupidwhen it comes right down to it, they amount to genocide.

   But I’ve known this for almost 20 years, so why am I writing this book now?

   As I write these words, it is November 16, 2010. Last December, a woman I knewjust a friendOD’d in my home. She had sworn to me that she was clean, and I told her that she had better not bring any pipes or needles into my apartment. “I won’t check your purse,” I said, “and I won’t hit a chickbut if I give you a noogie, you’ll wish I was hitting you!” Ha, ha. She was over for the weekend to connect with her eight-year-old boy who lived in town with his dad. That Saturday we saw the kid, went to a community center, played, and had fun. Then we dropped off the boy, had dinner with my mom, and went back to my place. Everything seemed cool, but I woke up at midnight to find her body in the washroom, naked and cold.

   You see, she had been in pain and was taking meds legitimately for that. She was supposed to take them orally. But she was always more likely to shoot up when not on methadone. She’d smash now and then anyway, but it would become dailyand far less controlledwhen she wasn’t on the methadone. People, including preachy do-gooders in the treatment system, had convinced her that methadone maintenance was still “using,” that a reduction in frequency and intensity of injections is not a “real” answer. No matter how painful, they said, it’s best to do it absolutely cleanall or nothing. She bought it and really tried. Can I ever prove that her death would not have occurred had she been on the methadone? Of course not. But we were very close. I used to get high with her, and I understood her patterns as well as anyone. There’s no doubt in my mind.

   At the funeral, I barely had the pluck to look her kid in the eye. What’s there to say?

   I remember thinking: this woman was never a menace to society, just a pain in the ass—little monkey would bump into a telephone pole, then blame the city for putting it there. Yet she was treated like someone who should be made to sufferand suffer horriblybecause somehow that would do her good.

   But there’s no reason for any of thisnone! And this book will tell you why.

   Only a few months back, I saw another one die. The hospital was kind enough to let me know that life support was to be withdrawn so that I could see her off. She had OD'd shooting crack over a month prior. Not good to shoot that. It tends to be dirty, and it’s worse when scraped off a used pipe screen. Paralysis set in, among other things. Though I saw her almost every day for a month, there was no family in sight. She'd have died alone had I not been there.

   By then, she was in a coma. Hoping that she could hear me, I whispered that I love her, and that her nightmare is over. When she went under, I cried like a baby. Outside the hospital, I hurled a string of profanities at the heavens.

   You see, she had been doing a hit-and-miss job of cutting down on her drug usestopping now and then, slowing down where possible. Some frontline persona recovering addicthad told her that such efforts are a waste of time: if you can’t kick, all that stopping and startingall those efforts to slow downwill do no good at all. She took that to heart, and gave up trying.

   But that frontline person was wrong, and is now responsible for my friend’s death. In a better world, that individual would also be legally accountable. This book will tell you why.

   So why am I writing this book? The 20th century approach to addictions, including alcoholism, has largely been governed by ideas and practices that simply add to the damage. No matter what the systemwhich includes the 12 Step movementtries to feed you, it all has to change.

   Why am I writing this book? Maybe it’s because I believe that, someday soon, anyone on the frontlines who talks the kind of nonsense that killed my friends will face justice, or at least lose their professional standing. I’ve long understood that those who tell addicts that they need to hit bottom are accomplices to an abomination. I also knew that most of them had been snowed into believing that they’re doing good. So for a long time my attitude was similar to that of a man who, long ago, said that such people should be forgiven, “for they know not what they do.” But I’ve changed. Through it all, the people feeding so many lies and half-truthsto addicts, to alcoholics, to the general publicmade a mistake. A really big one, too: they pissed me off.





Some people get upset because I call myself “crackhead.” Well, here’s something I learned from Ice-T some 20 years ago: call yourself what really fits. Look at the situation, and expose sugarcoated lingo for the bullshit that it is. Anyone who doesn’t want to be called crackhead can call himself a “person of crack” for all I care.

   I’ve been studying addiction-related matters for over 20 years, but this book was written in such a way that most people should be able to keep up. Readership will include frontline workers, professionals of all stripes, and members of the public who have been affected by addiction. But this book was written mainly for other addicts like me. It’s all about youall about usand why things don’t have to be as bad for us as they are. It can all change, but it will come down to you and me, and what we are willing to do. This is not another recovery bookwe have plenty of those. While recovery issues are discussed in length, this book is mainly a political treatise. The treatment industry and the recovery culture are all taken on, because they are integral to the realities facing addicts today, and also because rewriting those scripts will be central to rewriting the entire story. It’s a story that began long ago, and Chapter 7 provides the historical backdrop.

   A reader might note a glaring absence: this book does not say much about why people become addicted. Of course that’s an important matter, an understanding of which is central to prevention efforts and, in many cases, important to meaningful recovery. Perhaps in another book, I will address that.

   Here, though, my goals are more direct and immediate: like blacks, gays, and others, addicts must find some kind of political center. There was a time few would have thought that homosexuals could, yet they did. The system by which addicts are stigmatized follows a well-known pattern: those who get out of the shitter and abstain long term are recruited to put down the rest. I see people in recovery saying things like "Bitch/asshole hasn't suffered enougha few more beatings/rapes/infections/arrests might do it." Even when the wording is less harsh, the meaning remains. I see strong parallels with how the formerly poor often despise those who still are poor, or persons from marginalized ethnic groups who succeed and integrate might look down at the ones who still live in the ghetto.

   Addicts are not the only oppressed group, but they are the only remaining group deemed to benefit from degradation. Although “hitting bottom” is the term applied to addicts, the line of thinking is not new. In fact, it is very old. There was a time when children were said to benefit and learn from beatings and insults (“spare the rod, spoil the child”), wives too (“a beating will set her straight”), blacks (“the boy needs a good whupping”), gays, the mentally ill, the developmentally challenged. Although these groups are still often targets, at least the official line has changed. No other groupethnic, sexual, or otheris said to require degradation as a means to improvement. Since the Enlightenment, our collective political vision has involved doing away with such attitudes, and we addicts represent something special for this reason: arguably the last hurdle in an arduous quest for social justice that began, perhaps, with a revolution in America and another one in France.

   While I wrote this book to enlighten the public, I would really like to educate addicts themselves, to politicize them. Despite harsh words I may have for the system in place, I don’t deny a strong ambivalence. In fact, I’m counting on it: we are not the kind of civilization that stays too comfortable with oppression and degradation. In its way, the system really tries to helpeven the jail system. I see people looking like crap, drained and barely standing, right when they get busted. Eight months later, someone comes out of jail looking like an athlete. The system does try, and I am counting on that. I also count on the fact that my goals are consistent with the kind of civilization we are trying to create. The “get tough” people usually advocate things like forced treatment, and maybe harsher prison sentences. Sorry, but that’s just macho light. Few have the balls to advocate anything like large-scale slaughter which, in another time and another place, might actually work. So I’m calling on our civilization to get real: we don’t have the collective pluck to deal with things in a really tough way. My agenda is neither moralistic nor bleeding heart, just practical: might as well treat people right.

   This book owes a great deal to my recovery crewthe guys who have my back. They used to scrape me off the floor when I was down, and I’m always ready to do it for them. I call them my “war buddies,” because when you’re up against something that wants to kill you, you get tight fast. It’s not a shallow connection, just high speed. Two men can fight in a war together for a few months, never meet for 20 years, but when they do they’re still brothers. I love my recovery crew. We’re struggling with a demon that wants to take us out. But it’s not kind enough to kill us fast. It wants to bleed us, degrade us, make our loved ones cry, take away our dignity, and then, very slowly, suck us dry. We don’t let the bastard win, do we? And this book wouldn’t have happened if not for you, because I’d be dead, locked up, or in the middle of a psycho drug run.

   This book is not about my drug life, or about my recovery, but I’ll share one story. A friend of mine once tricked his way out of jail. He pretended to have some kind of aneurism, and then acted like he could barely move or talk. He kept it up for 60 days in the joint, sitting in a wheelchair and moving his head around like some unfortunate creature. He’d call me, but even on the phone he’d talk slowly, words disjointed, and poorly pronounced. When it came time for sentencing, the judge figured he’d “suffered enough.” So my buddy walked. Then, driving him home, I found out that he first got the idea for this retard act from watching me spazz out on crack. True story! Funny, but also tragic.

   Tragedy can change a man. In my twenties I was a drinker, a jock, and an occasional scrapper. I really thought I was a badass. But I found out: alone and trying to score at 3 a.m., surrounded by hustlers who might want an extra piece of me because of skin … Well, I learned because I had to. I’m rougher around the edges today, yet I’ve managed to retain my humanity. At times, though, it was hard to tellalmost too close to call. Nietzsche said that when battling a monster, it’s important not to become a monster. Yeah, and I’ve been to hell and back. It’s good to be back.

   I believe in myselfin my fellow crackheadsand believe that things could really change over the next few decades. This book was written for crackers like me. Hey, drunks, poppers, junkies and other needle freaks toowe’re not exclusive.





1. “You need to hit bottom”—a myth that kills



What would you think of a doctor who told a cancer patient that treatment of any kind would be a waste of time because the disease is not yet critical? Any intervention at this point would simply interfere with a process that will, in time, produce lots of pain, degradation, and maybe irreparable physical damage. Oh, sure, early intervention might save you the need to have your arm amputated, but losing an arm might be what it takes to change your attitude and make you receptive to treatment.

   No matter how insane this approach would beshould I say evil? it is precisely how the system has traditionally dealt with addictions. With no other medical conditionnot even mental illness or neurosisis the governing idea that the disease must be allowed to cause a great deal of damage in order to prepare someone for help.

   For that matter, with no other medical condition is failure of treatment consistently blamed on the patient (more on this in Chapter 3).

   Are addictions really all that different from other diseases on this point? Is it really necessary that someone hit bottom in order to improve? No, and this one stupid lie hasby means of treatment practice, social policy, societal attitudes, and even “wars” waged by politicians all over the world against drug userskilled millions and caused many more to suffer needlessly. Like I said already: what we’re talking about here is genocide. It is a political issue. Try treating any other disadvantaged group this waygays, immigrants, the physically handicapped, racial minorities, the mentally illand you’d be in big trouble. Yet, daily, those addicted to drugs and alcohol are fed a story about how physical suffering, emotional degradation, possibly even HIV infection, are precisely what they need. No politicianor doctorwould dare to suggest the same to another disadvantaged group.

    Perhaps the best way to start will be in the form of a reply to a point surfacing in the minds of a few readers: the bottom, we are told, is personal. The idea is that no two persons are the same, that each can handle different amounts of pain or degradation. While certainly true, and possibly conveying an open-minded attitude, this point simply muddles the issue. Since the bottom is absolutely personal, a paper cut could qualify. Seriously, if people have already decided that whatever precedes recovery must be a bottom, then whatever came before recovery will be called a bottom. In philosophy, this is often called circular reasoning: you must hit bottom prior to recovery; you stepped on dog poop prior to recovery; so stepping on poop was your bottom. That’s why the 12 Step world speaks of high bottoms, low bottoms, in between …

   The real issue is this. It starts with a no-brainer: if addiction were painless, few would give it up. From there, the system has long assumed that if someone isn’t ready to change, more pain must be the answer.

   First, I will point out that this doesn’t follow: if some pain is needed, that simply means that pain is a necessary ingredient. It does not prove that pain is the only ingredient, or that higher and higher doses of the same are somebody’s best hope. Pain is one ingredient, but there are others. In any case, this idioticand murderousline of thinking has long been defended by a hopelessly circular logic. I will repeat it. Bottoms are personal, and must come before recovery, so whatever comes before recovery has to be a bottom.
   To get to the truth, we need to engage with facts rather than such useless “reasoning.” As promised, I try to keep this whole treatise clear and simple. So here: three of the best predictors of success in recovery are: (1) social support (family and friends have not written you off); (2) social standing (job, status, and so on); and (3) cognitive functioning. While some issues are debatable, this is not. It’s simply a fact known to anyone who has studied the matter. A hardcore drunk, junkie, or crack smoker who does not stop while still enjoying those three markers might need some kind of encouragement. However, if those three markers were to fade away, that person would clearly be closer to a real bottom and yet, statistically, far less likely to achieve abstinence. Conversely, an addict in dire straits who receives decent housing (or some kind of decent opportunity, even something like a love connection) will be more likely to kick. One step away from a “bottom” is more likely to precede positive change than another step in that direction. Yet, somehow, our culture has come to insist that whatever precedes the point of change must be called a bottom (according to this logic, even winning a lottery and meeting the love of one’s dreams might be someone’s bottom).

   Let’s use an example that even more people can relate to. Say we have two tobacco smokers, each with a pack-a-day habit. Demographicallyage, gender, culture, incomethey aren’t too different. The only significant difference is this: one person is happily married and happy at work; the other one just got divorced and is worried about getting fired. I think that most readers can guess that the happier individual is a better candidate for quitting smoking. The other one might quit, but probably not right away. Of course there are exceptions, but the odds are overwhelming: people are much less likely to leave their addictions when their lives are in turmoil. The truth really is that simple. More pain, more degradation, will lessen someone’s chances of getting better.

   Why don’t people think so? One reason is that information comes from persons in the treatment system and from persons in recovery. People convey what they see. Now, say we torture and degrade 40 addicts and one ends up recovering. Many in the system, which for practical purposes includes the 12 Step fellowships, assume that the pain and degradation made that one success story possible. The person who recovers may also believe that the suffering is what did it. Sorry, but on this score, people are not always very good at interpreting their own stories and experiences (this is discussed in Chapter 4). Yet in people’s minds, that one story confirms the myth. Well, it didn’t work for the others, the overwhelming majority. Why not? More important, those 39 are not in sight and play no role in forming the opinions of whoever interacts with the one success story.

   A recap: if people have been led to believe that bottoms are needed, they will interpret everything coming their way from that point of view. Oh, and if someone got to treatment or to 12 Step groups without too much suffering, no problem: that’s a high bottom. I want to make this very clear: no amount of evidence could ever challenge a mindset governed by this kind of circular logic. The beliefs have nothing to do with evidence. They are rooted in decades of political, social, and religious brainwashing (this history is discussed in Chapter 7).

   Let’s look at it from another angle. Anyone in the treatment business or the 12 Step world knows about the stopping and starting that normally takes place before long-term abstinence. Often, the process goes on for years. Someone tries something, it helps for a while, but only for a while. Then the person may try something else. That doesn’t work forever, and they slide back into hard using or drinking. Once they get to treatment or a meeting, they might be told that it’s good that they finally learned that all those efforts were uselessit has to be all or nothing. Right?

   Wrong. What happens in such cases is that all the stopping and starting has reduced overall consumption: someone who once smoked 100 bags a year or drank 400 bottles a year has now been smoking 20 to 80 bags a year, or drinking maybe 50 to 300 bottles a year. After a couple of years of that, or even after six months, someone is a bit healthier. Someone’s brain is less saturated than it once was. Such a change, even a small one, will improve cognitive functioning and render someone a better candidate for abstinence. Also, those many days clean have given a person a bit of practice. Anyone who has gotten used to staying sober, for even just three or four days here and there, is a step ahead of someone who can’t even imagine two whole days without a drink or a blast. Regardless of what many will tell you, every effort at reduction will increase someone’s chances of getting clean for good. Plus, it improves things here and now. So even if it never leads to abstinence, it’s a good thing in itselfwin-win either way.

   Think about this: with most medical conditions, something like a 20 percent improvement is considered a huge accomplishment. With addictions, even an 80 percent reduction in use is considered failure.

   Why? It interferes with the bottom that’s supposed to get people well. But bottoms don’t get you well. First, many people don’t survive their so-called bottoms. Second, when someone gets well and attributes it to a bottom, it really means that the person does not understand the process of change. Nothing against that person, but human beings do not have the ability to look inside their own souls and tell you exactly why something changed, improved, or got worse. We speculate, and the explanations we offer are typically functions of what we have been taught. Remember, if everyone around you tells you that a bottom had to do it, and especially if these are people who sincerely want to help, there will always be a way to explain your story accordingly.

   Let’s take a closer look at methadone maintenance, and use it as a model for other harm-reduction initiatives designed to cut down on the amount of using or curtail the overall damage. Here’s what methadone tends to do for people. In some cases, it brings real freedom from all the trouble that goes with drugs and the street life. In other cases, it cuts into the damage:


  • Someone who used to shoot up six times a day might be shooting up six or seven times a week.
  • Someone who used to smoke an eight-ball of crack a day might be smoking that amount once a week and maybe 40 bucks worth on one or two other days.
  • Someone who used to boost every day might be boosting once a week.
  • A guy who used to knock his girlfriend out every two months or so will switch to bouts of verbal abuse and maybe giving her a hard shove once or twice a year.
  • A girl who used to pull two or three tricks a day is now doing two or three a week.


   It isn’t pretty, but you get the picture. In many cases, it’s all we’ve got. Methadone has been shown to reduce arrest rates and time spent in jail. Many people refuse to see that and say: Well, so and so is still shooting up, smoking crack, stealing, so what’s the difference? Well, even a 5 percent reduction would be something. In many cases, however, the reduction in bad behaviors is over 90 percent. With no other medical condition would such improvements be dismissed. Yet, once more, with addictions, everything short of complete success is treated as failure.

   Imagine if someone dependent on a wheelchair worked hard, reclaimed 45 percent of their former abilities, and could now walkthough slowly, with a cane, and only for short distances. Everyone would cheer, and the professionals who helped the person achieve this would be considered to have done well. Who would say: “He’s not walking perfectly so what’s the point? Might as well break his fucking legs until he learns the real deal and gets it right.”

   What kind of monster, or idiot, would say such a thing? Yet, when an addict shows a 45 percent improvement, people quickly say the kinds of things that only monsters and idiots would say. I am not suggesting that everyone who says these things is evil or stupid. On the contrary, people have been brainwashed by a nasty, idiotic system. This book is all about how that takes place, and how to put an end to it.

   For now, let’s get back to the methadone situation. If someone were to badger 20 methadone patients to give it upbecause “that’s still drug use,” “it’s not a real solution,” etc. here is what is likely to occur: 1 of those 20 might kick and do very well. A few others won’t like the change and quickly get back on the methadone. The rest will resume old patterns, and from there it might not be easy to reconnect with the system. So:


  • Someone who was shooting up six or seven times a week will be back to smashing six times a day.
  • Someone who was smoking crack sporadically will be back to smoking full time.
  • The once-a-week booster will be back to fulltime crime.
  • Some woman out there will get six easily preventable beatings thanks to someone’s preaching.
  • The working girl will be back to selling herself fulltime.


   Well, at least they got one person to kick and lead a healthy life, right? Nodead wrong! The abstinence pushers would like to take credit for these few success stories. However, statistically, 1 in 20 (give or take) is likely to move in that direction within a reasonable time frame. Nobody does well with abstinence, and then keeps it up, because of someone’s badgering. If that person kicked and got better, it’s because it was that person’s time—everyone has their own process. This lucky soul might even believe that the badgering triggered the process, but that proves nothing. The recovery process runs deeply, at levels we still don’t fully comprehend. People rarely know why they got better, (something this book also explains in Chapters 3 and 4).

   Instead of taking credit for a success story that was already in the cards, certain individuals should in fact take responsibility for what they did cause:


  • They should apologizeface to faceto third, fourth, and fifth parties who contracted hepatitis or HIV because of all that extra smashing.
  • They should apologizeface to faceto someone who was able to hold down a job or start school despite sporadic crack use and who is now in jail.
  • They should apologizeface to faceto the woman who got beat up six times last year because of their preaching.
  • They should apologizeface to faceto a girl who had taken a real step in the direction of maybe never selling herself again.


   What they shouldn’t do is take credit for that one success story. Typically, those who push this tripe will take credit for that one case and never take responsibility for all the misery, arrests, beatings, and murders they cause. Why? Oh, yeah, they are helping people hit bottom. Well, bottoming out is not what gets people ready to change. That’s the truth. Forget all the bullshit you’ve been fed. The recovery process is long. It usually starts well before someone gets clean or goes to treatment or a meeting. Anything one can do to reduce the damage along the way is good for two reasons:


1. Damage is reduced (infections, you name itthat’s good, right?).

2. Reducing the damage here and now will increaseand not decreasea person’s chances of achieving abstinence sometime down the road.


   With no other medical condition does the favored approach involve allowingor actively encouraging (!)a disease to do as much harm as possible. There are so many repercussions to this mindset, but I will end this chapter with one example and one thought.


   The example: Consider the attention devoted to the effects of substance abuse on unborn children. Now, women (including pregnant women) are far less likely to abuse substances when in a safe and healthy environment. Beyond this, nonbiased studies have been reaching similar conclusions: a pregnant woman who smokes crack, yet has a safe home and receives proper medical attention and good nutrition, is far more likely to produce a healthy child than is a drug-free woman who eats very poorly and has little or no prenatal care. This reality is accentuated if someone must deal with outright homelessness or physical abuse. My point is not that it’s OK to abuse substances when you’re pregnant. IT’S NOT OK! But this kind of thing happens more often, and the damage gets worse, because society still feels a need to push addicts in the direction of some kind of bottom. It even affects homeless, pregnant women who don’t use drugs, because they are often treated by the system as though they do. No amount of preaching can alter the fact that this whole way of thinking has had devastating effects on addicts, on children, and also on society at large.


   The thought: If only pain and degradation will save an addictif that’s what it must take to get that person to take care of his or her children and lead a happy lifethen the next time you see a pathetic, smelly drunk stumbling along the street, you should walk over there, kick him in the nuts, and break a few of his fingers. You won’t, will you? And you wouldn’t support such behavior on the part of professionals. But if bottoming out is the answer, your attitude is simply a cop-out. In fact, your attitude is healthy: not too far below the surface, you understand that this can’t be the answer. Your instincts are right. The 20th century was wrong. And by the time you finish this book, you will understand perfectly.